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Singles seeking to marry well can learn so much from a man who got married four hundred years ago. He made a supremely wise choice for all the right reasons and benefitted immensely because of it. Don’t be freaked out that he was a Puritan. Richard Baxter (1615-1691) lived half his life as a single […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. If you want to make this Valentine’s Day special, in addition to shopping for the lingerie and chocolate, spend […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. There’s a popular joke in New England that expresses just how much affection Patriots fans have for their beloved […]

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January 10, 2017

A Tale of Two Wives

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. “All right,” the event organizer told me, “here’s your ride. His name is Terry.” You’ll have to forgive me […]

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January 7, 2017

The Marriage You Want

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. If you’ve been reading this blog, you’ve heard me talking a lot lately about cherishing our spouse. What does […]

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December 27, 2016

Keeping Your Promise

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship.   Wayne Williams grew up a Chicago Cubs fan because that was his father’s favorite team. As a young […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. My last post “Enough is Enough” crashed our website several times. We’ve had to upgrade our website platform and […]

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November 29, 2016

Enough is Enough

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. I’ve found men are most motivated to change during two times in a romantic relationship: Prior to the wedding […]

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September 9, 2016

What Your Spouse Needs Most

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. Your spouse may not realize what he or she needs most, but if you want a sacred marriage, you […]

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