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November 20, 2017

The Marriage Saver

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. There is one thing that could save you thousands of dollars in marital counseling. It can turn a frustrating […]

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October 26, 2017

Will You Comfort Her?

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. I have a tendency to wake up ridiculously early, often even before four a.m. I’ll try, many times unsuccessfully, […]

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September 7, 2017

For Worse

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. A woman from a war-torn country told an American, “The difference between Americans and the rest of the world […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. My son is getting two masters’ degrees at Harvard. Lisa says I shouldn’t tell people that because it sounds […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. I received the following email (edited for length and taking out any identifying information) from a reader:   I […]

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June 2, 2017

Men We are Third

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship.   One of the most frequent requests I get is to write a book specifically for husbands. The reason […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. When Lisa and I were at the Love Song Couples’ Getaway in the Bahamas, we had a room large […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. Here’s a shocking thought: Most of us approach child-rearing from the perspective of, “How many kids do we want […]

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April 20, 2017

Your Boyfriend’s Brain

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship.   Single women, your boyfriend’s brain is very different than yours. If you try to evaluate him like you’d […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. While writing Cherish, a good friend of mine who does a lot of counseling warned me that many spouses—up […]

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