Archives For Gary Thomas

December 27, 2016

Keeping Your Promise

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship.   Wayne Williams grew up a Chicago Cubs fan because that was his father’s favorite team. As a young […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. My last post “Enough is Enough” crashed our website several times. We’ve had to upgrade our website platform and […]

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November 29, 2016

Enough is Enough

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even […]

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November 22, 2016

Feed Your Marriage

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. Many of us (at least in the U.S.) are making all sorts of plans about how to feed ourselves […]

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November 17, 2016

Post Election “Healing”

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. We’ve all heard the calls to “unite” and “heal” following one of the most contentious presidential elections in modern […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. I’ve found men are most motivated to change during two times in a romantic relationship: Prior to the wedding […]

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November 4, 2016

Cherish

Gary Thomas — 

“My dove, my perfect one, is the only one.” Song of Songs 6:9 Marriage becomes particularly special when this verse describes how we view our spouse. Just this morning as I was in my study, I heard my wife gradually waking up. My heart went out to her. I hadn’t seen her yet, but just […]

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November 1, 2016

River People

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. You can divide the world into two different kinds of people: “river people” and “lake people.” You will be […]

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October 25, 2016

Marriage in a Bikini

Gary Thomas — 

This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. Lisa and I love watching the Olympics, and this summer there were several sports in which we caught just […]

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This blog is not written for women in abusive marriages. The advice offered in these posts will challenge both husbands and wives, but the advice could be counter-productive if it is applied in an abusive relationship. What if one of the things we need is something we don’t want? One of the things I love […]

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